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Often when someone feels they are forbidden, because of religious reasons, to mastur..... or watch porn, they become negatively obsessed with not doing it.
The individual may become consumed in their best efforts not to watch porn or have lustful thoughts, and these thoughts may actually multiply, becoming a constant pressure on one’s brain and burden to one’s soul.
Some believe that their natural sexual impulses are evil and that they themselves are inherently evil when they encounter natural desires or when they occasionally act out on their desires.
These negative thoughts may lead to shame, obsession, negativity, guilt, complexes, dishonesty, isolation, divorce and other harmful negative and destructive thought processes.
We hope you can find some light and love as you Contemplate with us.
Along with a loving and supportive community that will help you make long term and sustainable positive changes towards having a healthy outlook on sexuality, porn and masturbation, you will also have access to the following:
1). Resources from the internet that are scientific, religious, philosophical and historical that consider issues designed to help you understand ways to overcome your obsessions and lead you to a healthier lifestyle.
2). Progress areas that help you decrease the negative in your life, relieve negative thoughts about yourself and find honest and loving ways to eliminate your porn cravings. Living in constant cravings and trying to beat these cravings with a “white knuckle” approach will likely not be a long term, natural, healthy or sustainable effort. There is no magic wand or formula that applies to everyone. It is a self discovery process and takes time and commitment.
3). Thoughts and Discussion questions to Contemplate individually and as a Community.
Consider the results of a recent psychological study:
"If someone believed they were a sex addict, this belief predicted downstream psychological suffering, no matter how much, or how little, porn they were actually using."
"This means that the large scale promotion of the concept of "Porn addiction" in the media, on the internet, by self proclaimed experts and by an industry that preys off of an unrecognized disorder, appear to actually be hurting people."
Odds are you are one of these that have been hurt.
We hope that you can begin healing.